The Tao of Badass – PDF book download, by Joshua Pellicer. I hope I can explain what I want. The First Meeting, The Dating, The First Kiss, Body Language is very complex topics. Nobody can explain them with one or two sentences. You have to see, You have to hear, You have to ask and get answers. Dating, First Meeting, First Kiss are like an iceberg. Of course, the girls are like icebergs. You can see only a small part of the iceberg above the sea. A big part of the iceberg under the sea. If you can’t swim or diving you shouldn’t try to swim.